I have the Razer Wolverine V3 Pro and like some others the Xbox app is forcing us to update the firmware on a PC, it won’t let us into the app. I finally found a way to force through it.
When the box pops up saying Exit. Press Option + A face button to change your controller profile. This will let you manage the app under the message.
Press Y, then navigate to firmware update. This will let you update the firmware. It just worked for me.