Razer Mamba Elite and general Synapse/Chroma 4 Issues

Heya so i recently upgraded to Synapse/Chroma 4 because of the discontinuation banner in 3 and i must say worse decission in my life. Heres some issues i really need help with:

- Synapse & Chroma dont autostart by setting it in the app i only got it working after forcefully putting the .exe into startup folder
- This left me with problem 2 now they start up but they dont do it minimized as they should.
- my mamba elite doesnt sync its chroma effect with the rest anymore, its detected fine by both synapse & chroma but it just doesnt work. And if i use a standart wave for example its lagging terribly (the glow is) and dims down to minimum for no reason. 
- My Blackwidow v4 pro sometimes has issues syncing as well but at least the colors do not lag however it now double types and i cant hold backspace anymore to delete things i have to do singular taps
- you cant disabled auto updates on either software anymore… razer if you intent to release broken updates like in the past during synapse 3 why in gods grace did u remove our ability to turn them off

Also WHY just WHY did u think splitting on perfectly fine and easy to use software into 2 its more convoluted/complicated to use and uses up so much more resrouces on the pc… plus i am very sure one of them has a memory leak since after swwapping i cant leave my pc running overnight now or my vram & ram is just suddendly at max… pls consider fusing them back into one software at least this is ridiculous.